National Multiple Sclerosis Day – It’s today!

National MS Day

I had no idea there was an actual Multiple Sclerosis Day! I have the deepest respect for those who have MS.   My Mama had MS, so I am a first hand cheerleader for anyone with this disease.  I know MS normally shows up in people in their 20s & 30s. I did read a story about a girl who found out she had MS at the age of 19. She is such a brave person.  Please take time to read her story of courage & hope here.

So thankful for the people who have come up with this idea to honor these precious folks with MS.  I am so glad you came by to visit with me today. I have to be going now because I should be washing clothes.

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Was God in Oklahoma?

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I am a “Why” person. I like to know “Why” things happen. Sometimes my curiosity gets the best of me. However, I have learned that sometimes it’s not necessary to know why, but to know how. It’s no secret there was a tornado in Oklahoma City this past week. Some people like to start with the why’s when tragedies happen. “Why did God let this happen?” “Why did this happen to innocent people?” “If God loves us, why did he not keep those people safe?” These are all very good questions, but maybe the answers are outside the box. Some people might get angry at tragedies & ask, “Where was God?” I will tell you where God was. He was in heaven ready to help. The Bible tells us in Psalms 46: 1 He is a “very present help in time of trouble”. All through the Bible, God was there, when people were experiencing a hardship or problem. God was not with these folks to answer their whys. He was there to show them how He loves & cares for them all through hard times.
God was there with Joseph. Early in his life, it would seem that Joseph had problems. His brothers were jealous of him, so they sold him as a slave. They deceived their father Jacob into thinking Joseph was dead. Later in life when his brothers needed him, Joseph responded with kindness. He told them how God was working in his life in a special way. (Gen. 50: 20)
God was there with Moses. When he was placed into the water by his mother to escape being killed, God was there. Through divine providence, Moses ended up being the son of Pharaoh’s daughter. Later, God chose him as His mouthpiece. (Ex odus 4: 15)
God was there for Jesus. Even though Jesus was despised and rejected by many. (Isaiah 53:3) God was with Him. When He hung on the cross, He was carrying out the plan of God. Jesus was doing the will of the Father. (Luke 2:42; John 6:38)
God was there for the apostle Paul. Paul suffered for the gospel of Christ. Among those problems were being shipwrecked, beaten, and in perils. (II Corinthians 11:23-28). He also prayed that God would remove his thorn in the flesh. (II Corinthians 12:7) Yet through it all God was with Paul. Paul declared, “For when I am weak, then I am strong.” (II Corinthians 12:10). This strength was not his own. In prison, he stated, “I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.”(Philippians 4:13)
The Bible makes the simple point that God does not prevent trouble from happening. He is there in the midst of our troubles. A small child can fall with a parent close by, however, the parent is there to help and pick up the child. God works in the same way. He will be there for us when trouble comes. The Christian has the assurance that, “If we ask anything according to His will, He hears us.” (I John 5:14) The Bible promises us that, “The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and His ears are open to their prayers.” (I Peter 3:12) God has promised to be with His people (Heb 13:6) When a person is a Christian, trouble may come (II Timothy 3:12), but God is there.
I am so glad you have come by to visit with me today. It just makes my heart happy when you stop by! I have been so busy here lately with kids, Miss Neenee’s softball & school coming to an end. I may have to change my blog to I should be washing dishes because they are about to take over my kitchen! I do have to go now, because I should be washing clothes.
Parts of this article was taken from “The Messenger” from the church of Christ at Marion, IL with Brother Bill Brandstatter

Lord Help Me Jesus

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Have you ever been through a crisis? I mean just a good ‘ol hard time, that you did not create? Maybe it was a hurt or sick family member or an accident that caused you some money (that you did not have). Perhaps you were dealing with an unruly child or an ex-spouse that was just so hard to deal with that you just thought you would NEVER make it out with any small part of your sanity (not that I know anything about that. Oh wait, yes I do.) Maybe you have lost a loved one, a job or maybe it was your own failed health you were dealing with. Whatever the occurrence was, it was just plain uninvited & unwanted. I know I have been through a lot of things, that I was like, “Really? This is really happening to me?” There have been a lot of times I just wanted to crawl up in a hole & not have anybody bother me, again. But, alas, there’s always been some sort of responsibility I’ve had to another breathing human, that I had to pick up & go on, anyway. Sometimes I can spend an ample amount of time saying, “Why me?” Followed by wringing of hands & feeling not worthy of the troubles that have been laid upon me. When this happens, I have to remember the writer James in the New Testament.

James 1:2  My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials,

3 knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience.

4 But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.

5 If any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

6 But let him ask in faith, with no doubting, for he who doubts is like a wave of the sea driven and tossed by the wind.

7 For let not that man suppose that he will receive anything from the Lord;

8 he is a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways.

What if when faced with problems, I responded with an open heart & mind by saying,

“What are you going to teach me now, Lord?”

Instead, I want to huff & puff & stomp & cry like a two year old in bad need of a nap. This may be part of my problem. You see, I think God humbles us in ways we don’t expect. I think he does it for our benefit. That’s why I have learned in my short time, on this earth, you can be stubborn to a fault. It does not pay to be so hard headed about everything. And if you are, like me, then God will do things to try to soften your heart, so that He can use you in His service. It would appear, just not being a hard head, would be the solution. However, some folks, like me, are just made up that way & it can take dynamite to make them realize,

“Hey, you ain’t got to be right about everything, Jack.” (That was my Duck Dynasty Si impression for the day.)

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Always know, no matter how hard things are, this too shall pass. Things will get better. They will get worse. It’s just life but it’s all in how you handle it.
So, the next time you face a trial, remember, the Lord is trying to teach you something. He loves you so much He does not want you to remain as you are. Submit to His will, so that you may be useful for His service.
I am so glad you stopped by today for a visit. You have just made my day! I hope you have a wonderful rest of the week. As for me, I have to be going because I should be washing clothes.

Softball lessons

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It’s softball season again. With that comes the practices. The practices & games that you aren’t really sure what you are supposed to wear. It can be about 42 degrees, 75 degrees, windy or hot as a firecracker. You just never know what’s going to happen with spring in the South! I always do love getting to see how much the girls have grown, since the year before. There are always new girls that decide to try softball & see what it’s all about. Our girls are the 9-10 year olds. With that said, you know it is entertaining.
One of the best things I have seen so far was in a practice. The coach was getting the girls to practice hitting. Oh, did I mention this is the 1st year of kid pitch? The pitcher is an actual player. Not like years past, of coach pitch. There were several players that went up to bat. There were not many hits being made. Then, one little girl walked up to the plate. It was her first time to play softball. She gets in her batting stance, then stops & looks around at the coach. She said, “What do you want me to do when I hit it?” I was standing in the dugout. I laughed to myself. This little girl had some courage! She had already assumed the hit. It never occurred to her, that she wasn’t going to hit the ball.
This is the kind of faith the Lord wants us to have.
In Matthew 17:20 it says
And Jesus said unto them,
Because of your unbelief:
for verily I say unto you,
If ye have faith as a grain of mustard seed,
ye shall say unto this mountain,
Remove hence to yonder place;
and it shall remove; and
nothing shall be impossible unto you.
We should always be willing to assume the Lord will handle our situations. However, I get impatient, don’t you? That’s when I worry, fret, walk around with a cloud over my head. Instead I should say, “What do I need to do, once I receive my blessing?” That’s the attitude this sweet first time softball player had. And you know what? She did need to know what to do when she hit the ball. Because she did.

I am so glad you stopped by for a spell.  It makes my heart happy when you come by for a visit.  I hope you are having a great week.  I have to be going for now, because I should be washing clothes.

Being offended

Have you ever been offended?  I know I have.  Sometimes it might be how I felt that day, that made it so easy, to have gotten under my skin.  It might be that someone makes light of something, I think is important.  Or it just might be the wrong time for a comment to be made.  Sometimes things hurt my feelings!  But you know what?  I am the only one that can control my being offended.  People are people.  They are going to say stuff that they don’t think about, before they say it.  They are going to let their lips run rampant.  They are not going to consider how you feel or what their shallow words do to you.  So, how do you rid yourself of being offended?  Well, Lord knows most of the time, you may not be able to do anything about the people around you.  Then, what’s left?  You simply must determine in your heart, that you will not let those unkind, untrue things said out of ignorance, bother you.  Yes, it will take practice, but it’s not unachieveable.

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I read a remarkable post this week, by Christy Jordan @ the Southern Plate blog.  It was so good, that I wanted to share it with you all.  Since I am the president & CEO of I should be washing clothes.wordpress.com, I am making the executive decision to to hereby declare her post part of my post.  I love being boss.  So, for those of you, who may have already seen this on Christy’s blog, I am so sorry, ya’ll.  It’s just too wonderful not to pass on.  Just click here.

I needed so badly to hear what Christy had to say on this subject.  Thank you for stopping by to visit with me today.  I have enjoyed having you here.  I have to be going now, because I should be washing clothes.

Into the Word Wednesday-My aha! moment

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Few things take me by surprise, anymore.  However, this week, as I was into the Word, I had an “Aha!” moment.  I had been studying in the Old Testament about Moses, Aaron, & the Levites.  During my study, I was curious to what Moses & the children of Israel were learning.  They had plague, after plague, then fussing & griping & in the end poor Moses still did not even get to see the promised land.  I got to thinking why in the world would God treat his children like this?  Shouldn’t they live a life with no worries or heartaches?  No pain & sorrow.  No problems to be burdened with?  After all, they were God’s chosen people.  God chose those people.  Then all of a sudden it hit me:

Moses killed a man.

Noah got drunk after he left the ark.

David commited adultery.

Paul persecuted Christians.

Peter denied he even knew who Jesus Christ was.

I have been divorced, my Mama died at an early age (after years of needless suffering), my relationships have been strained with some of my family, I have been through my share of trials.  But God is still good.  Even though He lets tragedies happen to the best of us.  He could be doing this to mold us into the people He needs us to be so that He can use us.  Otherwise, we may get so full of life & pride that He can’t use us for His will.

I read in Hebrews 12 starting with verse 6

For whom the Lord loves, He chastens….(0r corrects)- so then the Lord must love me, more that your average bear ALOT.

verse 11 Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful:nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it.

How many times do we say, “Thank you Lord for all these problems, because I know this is going to help me be more like you want me to be?”  Uh, yeah, not me.  But that’s what He says is going on (Heb 12:11) My deal is I need to submit more to His will in the 1st place, then, maybe I won’t have to endure such correction from the Lord (in the form of troubles).  My “Aha!” moment made me realize I need to thank God for thinking enough of me, to not let me remain as I am.  That I am worth His time, effort, & energy to be disciplined by trials to make me into what He wants me to be.  For that I am truly humbled.

I will be linking up with Falen & Laura at Upward Not Inward’s Into the Word Wednesday.  Come on over & see what’s going on.  We always have a good time sharing what the Word of God is saying to us.  Thanks for stopping by to visit!  I have to be going now, because I should be washing clothes.

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All access pass

Sometimes I am in awe of God. I mean, I have been so fortunate to have been brought up in church & in His service all my life. I think, as a human, one gets to going through the motions, & we take for granted or just plain forget all that God is & does. Mostly, how much He loves us. When I think of how much he loves me, little ol’ me, that just takes up about 5’6” of this ol’ world, I get teary eyed. It just tugs at my heart that I am significant to this Spirit, so indescribably powerful & in control of everything. In the same sense, I know to have an all access pass; I have to do my part as well.
In Chronicles 28:5-10 King David was advising his son Solomon about what he could have if he followed God. Here is how King David set all of this up:
5 And of all my sons (for the LORD has given me many sons) He has chosen my son Solomon to sit on the throne of the kingdom of the LORD over Israel. 6 Now He said to me, ‘It is your son Solomon who shall build My house and My courts; for I have chosen him to be My son, and I will be his Father. 7 Moreover I will establish his kingdom forever, if he is steadfast to observe My commandments and My judgments, as it is this day.’ 8 Now therefore, in the sight of all Israel, the assembly of the LORD, and in the hearing of our God, be careful to seek out all the commandments of the LORD your God, that you may possess this good land, and leave it as an inheritance for your children after you forever.
Here is the “rest of the story” as Paul Harvey used to say. For Solomon to receive the blessing he had a few stipulations to meet.
9 “As for you, my son Solomon, know the God of your father, and serve Him with a loyal heart and with a willing mind; for the LORD searches all hearts and understands all the intent of the thoughts. If you seek Him, He will be found by you; but if you forsake Him, He will cast you off forever. 10 Consider now, for the LORD has chosen you to build a house for the sanctuary; be strong, and do it.”
Doesn’t this sound like God’s grace for us? We have all these blessings, if we are willing to follow God’s plan, whether we deserve it or not. And like my Daddy always tells me, “You better hope you don’t ever get everything you deserve!” God is not playing hard to know. For those who seek Him & do his will, He is all in. However, just like Solomon, we have a responsibility to God. After that, if we are faithful, we have an all access pass to God’s love & blessings. But watch out, because God knows our hearts & the intents of our thoughts. We have to learn to love without regard. All the hate, deceit, & grudges our heart can hold, ain’t nobody got time for that! Especially God. So, just go ahead & get rid of ‘em!
What a wonderful life to live! All we have to do is submit to Christ. That’s all. I just pray that I will always be in awe of what a BIG God we serve, so that I can have my all access pass. I am so glad you stopped by today & visited with me for a bit. I hope you have a great week. As for me, I have to be going, because I should be washing clothes….

On That Red Dirt Road

red dirt roadI was listening to the radio the other day.  I love country music.  So, of course it was on a country station.  I have heard the song “Red Dirt Road” by Brooks & Dunn ever since it came out.  It’s a song about a person’s life that was experienced on a “Red Dirt Road”.  Well, of course I relate to that.  I was raised on Rural Route 2, right where the black top ended. (Which is just about the wording of the 1st line of this song).  In Northeast Mississippi we had lots of red dirt roads.  But while I was listening to this song, for some reason it clicked finally what the duo was saying.  They talk about all this stuff that happened on the red dirt road, which was their life.  The song’s chorus goes like this:

 

It’s where I drank my first beer.

It’s where I found Jesus.

Where I wrecked my first car: I tore it all to pieces.

I learned the path to Heaven, Is full of sinners an’ believers.

Learned that happiness on earth, Ain’t just for high achievers.

I’ve learned; I come to know, There’s life at both ends, Of that red dirt road.

 

I think there is a lot of truth in this.  The part about happiness on earth ain’t just for high achievers- really is true.  Even the simplest of people can be completely happy.  Happiness is an easy thing to achieve, if you are willing to do what the Bible says.  In Proverbs there was a man named Agur. He declared what he had learned on his “Red Dirt Road”. 

 

Proverbs 30:7-9

Two [things] have I required of thee; deny me [them] not before I die:

Remove far from me vanity and lies: give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with food convenient for me:

Lest I be full, and deny [thee], and say, Who [is] the LORD? or lest I be poor, and steal, and take the name of my God [in vain].

 

Agur wanted to be rid of a life of excessive pride & lying.  Then, he did not want to be rich or poor, since there are problems with both. In verse 9 he explains if we are prideful or rich we think we don’t need God.  If we are poor, we could be tempted to steal & curse God (a big ol’ helpin’ of a “Why me, Lord?” attitude).  I think there is a BIG lesson in those couple of verses.  One that I needed to hear for sure.  I need to be more content.  I need to enjoy what God has allowed me to achieve on my red dirt road of life.  (Instead of always looking for something  more to make me happy.)  Did you notice Agur did not want a lot of money?  I think if we had a lot of money we would be in a constant state of greed, making sure nobody’s trying to get our money.  Then we could be worried that something would happen to our money.  All that time spent trying to keep hold to all that we have.  When, you can’t take it with you.  In my life time, I have seen so many people act so silly over stuff.  You know what?  When the Lord calls them home, what’s going to happen to that stuff?  Somebody else is going to end up with it.  I haven’t ever seen a U-Haul (full of stuff) pulled behind a hearse.  Have you?  I think ol’ Agur hit it all right on the head.

 

I hope you don’t mind that my post today includes, Jesus, beer, & happiness.    Because I don’t believe  in any way, that those things go together.  It just worked out that way, for once.  I will ask for forgiveness because Lord have mercy, I don’t want anybody to be offended by it.  Ya’ll just have to understand where I am coming from with this.  I’m so glad you chose to stop by & visit with me.  I love it when you come by!  I have to be going for now, because I should be washing clothes.

Into The Word Wednesday- God’s comfort

It’s Wednesday!  Time to get into the Word, again.  Falen & Laura from Upward Not Inward have a wonderful link up on Wednesdays every week.  It’s where we go to talk about what the Word has been saying to us during the week.  I am so happy to be here with ya’ll today to share with you what the Word is saying to me.

This blog makes me happy!

This blog makes me happy!

I don’t know if I need comfort, or I just love being comforted.  My Sunday School class is studying II Corinthians right now.  When I was reading over chapter 1, I came across this:

II Corinthians 1: 3-4

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort.

    1. who comforts us in all our tribulation that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble, with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.

Not only do I reap the benefits of God’s comfort, I also am gifted with God-like comfort to show & share with someone else.  That’s amazing to me.  We are to give just as we have also been given.  That is a wonderful way to live.  A standard that we should always share with each other.  God gives us what we need.  In turn, we should share that same peace & contentment with others.  I sometimes am in need of God’s comfort. This is a great reminder, to be willing to pass it on to others, as well.  I remember all to well how my Mama and Mamaw used to hug us kids up.  It made me feel safe & secure.  They knew all too well what it was like to share comfort with the ones they loved.  I know this is the God-like comfort II Corinthians is talking about.  It’s the kind of comfort that just melts your heart.

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I hope you have enjoyed my short & to the point Into the Word Wednesday.  Go on over to Upward Not Inward & link up.  We have a great time sharing God’s Word with each other every mid week.  I am thrilled you stopped by to visit with me.  I have to be going for now, because I should be washing clothes.

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A cow with no horns

cows with no horns

“Mister, why doesn’t this cow have any horns?” asked the young lady from a nearby city, on a trip to the country.

The farmer kinda had a funny look on his face, for a moment.  He then began in a very patient tone. “Well ma’am cattle can do a powerful lot of damage with horns.  Sometimes, we keep’em trimmed down with a hacksaw.  Other times we can fix up the young’uns by puttin’ a couple of drops of acid where their horns would grow in, and that stops’em cold.  Still, there are some breeds of cattle that never grow horns,” the farmer continued.  “But the reason this cow don’t have no horns, ma’am, is ’cause it’s a horse.”

Have you ever felt misunderstood?  I know I have.  Sometimes I feel like no one could ever understand how I feel about certain things in my life.  My kids, my family, my church- these are all things I have a particular emotional tie to.  I feel like there are times that it’s hard to put into words my love, my attempts of caring, and my concern.  When my college age daughter doesn’t answer her phone, it may be something as simple as she’s in a spot with no service or she’s driving.  I start to worry.  And by the time I do talk to her, I may be a tad impatient.  (By a tad, I mean a gigantic frenzy of WHAT IN THE WORLD HAVE YOU BEEN DOING??)  She & I may be a little misunderstood with each other at that moment.  She doesn’t seem to  know what all the hoopla is about.  I don’t know why she has to be so nonchalant about my hissy fit.  In the end, we agree, that if I did not love her & care about her well being, it would not matter if she answered her phone or not.  We may sometimes misunderstand each other.  However, there is One that is always here to understand us.  All we have to do is trust.

Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord, with all your heart. And lean not on your own understanding.  v.6 In all your ways acknowledge Him & He shall direct your paths.

I hope that if you feel misunderstood, that you will seek out the understanding that God gives us.  He can love us & be there for us like no other.  There is nothing that can fill the God shaped void in one’s life, but God himself.  I am so glad you stopped by to visit with me today.  I love it when you drop by.  Until next time,  I have to be going, because I should be washing clothes….

The funny cow story was taken from a ‘House to House Heart to Heart’ bulletin.  You can visit them at www.housetohouse.com